Sunday 1 August 2021

Leave her

 Leave her at the river bank


‘Leave her at the river bank

Don’t carry her around’

The Buddhist taught the young disciple

As they walked from town to town. 


‘We’ve done our sacred duty

By helping her across

It doesn’t help her or us

To keep her on our backs. 


She is a pretty maiden

But that’s all history now

There are other, better things

To focus on somehow. 


The vow of celibacy we took

Doesn’t mean we close our eyes

But train our minds to focus

On our sacred goals. 


All we see is truly good

Although our minds can mess it up

Let’s not obsess but move along

Why dredge the depths when we can reach the sky?’



This poem refers to a story about a Buddhist master and his disciple who come to a river to discover a pretty young woman who needs help to cross. The older man carries the woman on his shoulder and continues his journey. The younger man is scandalized and keeps referring to her hours later. The master turns to his disciple and says ‘I carried her across the stream and left her on the bank, but you have continued to carry her for the past few hours.’